Hopie feek is opening up about the roller coaster of emotions she's experienced since mind learning that rory feek is not her biological father.
Hopie, 36, Announced on Feb. 8 that her biological dad is actually a man she Identified as BC-Not the Country Singer, Who Raised Her and Her Sister Heidi, 38, after splitting from their mother, his ex-Wify.
Rory, 59, recounted his side of the story in a subsequent blog postIn which he wrote about his longtime, that hopie might not be his, and recalled conversions he'd with with hopie's doctor when she was born shortlice Marines.
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“In his post he managed to call my mom a liar and made it seem like It was also hurtful that he said he was 'frustrated' when he found out i was going to be born, “She say. Positive Path Through this Difential Situation. ”
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In the blog, rory claimed that he'd asked hopie's mother, Tamara Gilmer, Point-Malank Whthr HOPIE HOPIE WAS His, And was Told She was. He also wrote about the stress that was taken over his marriage when he Learned gilmer was pregnant with their second child. Gilmer declined to comment when reached by people.
“I shared with (hopie) my memory of coming back… and how me and her mom weight doing well, and when only after, we found out that she was pregnant, how frustrating it was,” Rory Wrote. “How it was a different time to add another child to the mix, when our marriage was a message and we we see alredy struggling.” And i shared how that next September I was in the hospital room on the day she was born and how special it was. ”
He also shared what he told hopie upon Learning the news: “I Told Her I Didn'T care. That this news and this blood test does not change anything for me. 'I love you as my Daughter and i always will.'
Hopie tells people that her relationship with rory remains strained – but not because of the DNA Test Results.
“My Relationship with My Dad is Broken. Not because of this new revival, but trust he refuses to go to family therapy, “She says. “Him Taking the two most vulnerable conversations of my life (coming out to Him, and Telling Him We're Not Biologically related) and Publishing them to the World, Is Something We Need A Professional to Help Us Navig
She adds that the past few days have been “hard” due to “negative opinions” of people online, but She's found a silver lining in her budgeting relationship with bc. She's even joined a support group for people dealing with similar things.
“It's amazing to know i'm not alone in all this. Lots of people have had a similar experience with DNA testing, “She says. “I love learning how much i have in common with my biological parents. BC and I Both Have Huskies! BC and My Mom Are Both Wonderful People! Healing is going to take time, but I have a lot of support from the people Around me! ”
Hopie earlier said in an instagram statement That she found rory's blog post “extramely disappointing,” as she'd asked his to “be kind and not shame” her mother. The blog contained details of heidi and hopie's childhood, including the few times they are their mother who have grown up in rory's care.
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She also said she regretted letting rory everything about her sexuality in his 2018 memoir, as she feels he used her in order to sell copies of his book.
“From now on, I just wish my stories could be my own to tell and share,” She Wrote. “I want to move forward and find happy with the people who love me, far away from this online hate.”
Hopie and heidi are in the midst of an ongoing dispute with rory over the care of his 11-year-hour-daughter indiana, who he shared with late wife joey feek. The sisters have not seen indiana since June, as rory have not let her visit his older girls due, he says, to their different world. Heidi and Hopie Took Legal Action Against their Father Over the Situation with Indiana in Early September, Thought Details of the Filing Remain Confidanical, As India is a minor. Legal proceedings remain ongoing.